"The LORD God said, 'It is not good for man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.' ... Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man." Genesis 2:18,22

Monday, December 13, 2010

In Celebration of Mackenna's Eighth Month Birthday


Eight Things That Mackenna's Doing Today That Make Me Smile

1) Army Crawling... or more appropriately named "The Inchworm"
2) Babbling back and forth with an expression on her face that says, "Mom, this is important stuff!"
3) Making silly faces
4) Playing with my hair
5) Pointing to my eyes when asked, "Where are Mommy's eyes?" (Smart girl, eh?)
6) Sleeping... I love playing with my girl, but there's nothing like some time to recharge while she's napping!
7) Giggling
8) Helping me turn the pages when I read to her... this has been one of my favorite things that she's learned to do most recently!

Happy 8 Month Birthday, Mackenna Grace! Daddy and Mommy love you so much!

Friday, December 3, 2010

Christmas Letter 2010


"The Lord has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy!" Psalm 126:3

Dear Family and Friends,

It's hard to believe that two thousand ten is closely coming to an end. As quickly as the year has passed, it was filled with blessings beyond measure and memories that we will cherish forever.

We started the year off with Trisha six months into her pregnancy with our first daughter, Mackenna Grace. The second trimester treated her much nicer than the first, and we were busy preparing for the arrival of our bundle of joy. Dustin began the final semester of his seminary education at Faith Bible Seminary and worked hard to finish strong. By the time April came, we were both ready to meet Mackenna Grace and it seemed as though the days crept by in slow motion.

On April 13th, 2010 we were blessed as our daughter was born at 10:14 am, weighing 7 pounds, 1 ounce, and measuring up at 19.5 inches. She is beautiful! We grew in trusting God as Mackenna was admitted to the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) shortly after birth due to a fever and undiagnosed respiratory infection. So many friends and family joined with us in prayer for Mackenna's recovery and we were overcome with peace and joy that went beyond our understanding. In the midst of a trial, God's grace sustained us and our trial became a blessing and testimony of God's goodness in our lives.

After Mackenna's birth, we had the pleasure of many visits from grandparents and relatives. Almost every month we've been blessed by a visit from loved ones. As new parents, this has brought such joy to our hearts, not to mention some much needed rest as extra hands help care for Mackenna.

In June Dustin graduated from Faith Bible Seminary, and was offered a position as Pastor of Community Ministries at Faith Baptist Church in Lafayette, Indiana. With a new baby at home and with Trisha staying home to take care of her, it was a relief to have a job secured and a plan in place after graduating from seminary. Dustin serves as the Director of Faith Community Center as well as providing pastoral leadership over staff, volunteers, and community members. He also has the opportunity to teach an Adult Bible Fellowship on Sunday mornings. This position uses many of Dustin's gifts while still challenging him to grow.

In October we became first time homeowners. We purchased a home close to the church and perfect for the three of us. After a few coats of paint, unpacking, arranging, and re-arranging, we have settled in and are enjoying making memories in our new home.

Mackenna is growing and changing so quickly. She is about seven and a half months old right now and just began "army" crawling. She kind of looks like a little inch worm pulling herself across the living room floor. It has been so neat to watch her learn to roll, then sit up by herself, then lean forward, then "army" crawl. One of our favorite things to hear is her cute little voice babbling away. She seems to babble most when she thinks we're not listening, like during a car ride or early in the morning before we've gotten her up from her crib. Waking up to baby babbles over the monitor is so much more lovely than baby cries! The Bible says in Psalm 127:3 that, "Children are a blessing from the Lord. The fruit of the womb is a reward." This year, we have experienced the truth of that verse.

As we approach this Christmas season, we don't want to forget the greatest blessing of all, the free gift of salvation in Christ. God has made a way for our relationship with Him to be restored, despite our sinful hearts. We don't have to be good enough, nice enough, or kind enough. We don't have to balance the scales and try to make up for our sins by doing good works. For one, we could never keep track of good works versus our sins and secondly, even if we could, our good works would never be enough. We don't have to earn forgiveness for our sins. God gives forgiveness freely to all who repent and trust in Christ. Because, you see, Christ was perfect. He was good enough, nice enough, and kind enough. He never had to make up for any sin, because everything that He did was good and pleasing to God. He did not need forgiveness because He never sinned. In fact, Christ is the one who grants forgiveness. Christ did not deserve to die, yet He did, for our sakes. And with His death, God's wrath was satisfied. The only way to God is through faith in Christ.

"For while we were still helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. For one will hardly die for a righteous man; though perhaps for the good man someone would dare even to die. But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Much more then, having now been justified by His blood, we shall be saved from the wrath of God through Him. For if while we were enemies we were reconciled to God through the death of His Son, much more, having been reconciled, we shall be saved by His life." Romans 5:6-10

So as we celebrate this Christmas Season, let us not forget to be thankful for a God who loves us enough to send His own Son to save us from our sins. He is the giver of all good things and His blessings are beyond what we deserve. We are so thankful for such wonderful family and friends and wish everyone a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!


Merry Christmas! 
With much love,
Dustin, Trisha, and Mackenna

Sunday, November 28, 2010

A Year in Pictures

January: Another look at Mackenna Grace

February: Anticipating the arrival of our precious girl!

March: Showered with Gifts!

April: Mackenna Grace Folden is here!

May: Our Growing Family
Visits from Grandpa Dennis and Grandma Patti

June: Dustin graduates from Faith Bible Seminary! All the grandparents come to see Mackenna... and to see Dustin graduate!

July: More fun with our girl!

August: Four Generations!
Visits from Grandpa Dennis, Great Grandma Rose, Great Auntie Denise, & cousins Abby and Camryn

September: Loving a visit from Poppi Paul, Uncle Turner....

...and a surprise visit from Grandma Patti!

October: Grandma Lee Ann and Auntie Allee come to see us!

November: Our Little Turkey on her first Thanksgiving!

Thursday, October 14, 2010

Folden Family Pajama Day

In Honor of Mackenna Grace Folden's very first cold... we've deemed October 14th the official Folden Family Pajama Day. From here on out, if possible (meaning, we don't have commitments outside of our home), October 14th will be a day of pajama wearing and relaxing.

For having an infection at birth, I have been very thankful that God has kept our girl healthy for the first 6 months of her life. Yesterday, on her 6 month birthday, she succumbed to her very first cold... fever and all. She is so miserably congested and only finds relief when being held or when playing in her "monkey seat" (aka Fisher Price Jumperoo). Since she can't sleep in her monkey seat, she's either sleeping in my arms or begrudgingly falling to sleep in her crib for a restless nap with lots of wake ups due to coughing. But, she's a little trooper. When she's not tired, she's acting like her same ole cute lil' self! Her appetite is still good and she's giving out a ton of smiles. Mommy's thankful for that! Daddy says she sounds like a little piggy with her congested nose... I agree! But she sure is one cute little congested piggy!

Last night was a little rough. She normally sleeps 10 hours straight but was up two times before 10:30 PM. At 2:30 she woke up with a "had to change the pajamas" messy diaper and a fever of 100.3. After cleaning up the mess, administering some Tylenol, and feeding her a bottle, she fell asleep in my arms until about 3:30 AM. She was up for about an hour and a half until out of sheer exhaustion she feel asleep in her crib. Thankfully, she slept until about 8:20 AM. Whew! Her schedule is all outta whack, but I'm just trying to get her rest and fluids... so I am not watching the clock today!

I always knew this day would come. "One day Mackenna will have a fever," Dustin often told me when I was worried about her getting sick in her early days of life. I was sure that they day she did have a fever that I would be a nervous wreck. But, by God's grace, I'm not. God has once again given me the grace to handle her sickness without being in an anxious frenzy. Praise be to God! I don't deserve His grace, yet in my time of need, He pours it out on me in a way that I can't even describe. My heart is not anxious AT ALL. That is a HUGE deal for me! Only by God's grace... truly!

Well, my little piggy is sleeping now... I should scurry and get some work done. To God be the glory!

Thursday, September 23, 2010

"The Great Baby Clean-up"

Today I had to stop by Dustin's work to make some copies and get our home mortgage application ready to be sent back to the bank. While we were there, Mackenna got hungry. While she was eating, she filled her pants. And, her diaper leaked... BIG time! So, I scrounged around in my diaper bag, got her changing pad out, got the wipes out, felt around for a diaper... felt around some more... dug in some pockets... NO DIAPER! Yikes! I had a package of size 1 diapers in the car (Mackenna wears size 2)... So, Dustin, so graciously offered to go out and get a diaper while I began the "Great Baby Clean-up." While very carefully removing Mackenna's onesie, I grabbed the wipes to begin cleaning her off and discovered... that was the last wipe! Double YIKES! Dustin brought in the diaper and I just looked at him and said, "I'm outta wipes!" Luckily I keep my car fully stocked with Wet Ones... they were better than paper towels. So, long story short... Mackenna cleaned up nicely... small diaper and all... and I learned, once again, to always check and make sure my diaper bag is fully loaded. :-) I love being a mommy! Even on the "poopy" days!

Monday, September 20, 2010

Unofficially Rolling Over...both ways!

Our darling Mackenna Grace has been rolling from her back-to-belly since she was only 3 1/2 months old. I've been expecting for her belly-to-back roll to make it's presence but it just hasn't been happening. Well... it's appeared... sort of! This morning she heard my voice when I came to get her out of her crib and she accidently rolled over. I thought, "Hmmm... I wonder if I can get her to accidently roll over enough that she'll just get some muscle memory and do it on her own." So we practiced a lot today! With the help of "Barry the Bluebird" I was able to tempt her by dangling "Barry" over her head and then...ooops... she'd accidently roll over.

We'll practice again tomorrow... hopefully she'll be doing it on her own by the end of the week. She's also pretty close to rolling from back-to-belly on her right side. Usually she just rolls to her left to get onto her belly. She must be getting stronger! I'm glad because she is so fussy lately. I think she's frusterated because her mind wants to do more than her body is capable of... bring on the mobility! I know, I know... once she's crawling I will miss theses days.... but right now... I am still looking forward to seeing her crawl around the house.

I Love You, Little One

A couple of weekends ago, on one of our date nights, Dustin and I went to Borders bookstore and bought a couple of books for Mackenna. My favorite one that we  bought her is called, I Love You, Little One, by innovativeKids. It is a really neat book that you can add your own photos to. Anyway... I really love the book and I wanted to share it on my blog....

To my precious, Mackenna.

I Love You, Little One

If love were something you could count and you were seeking the amount that adds up to my love for you, here is what you'd have to do....

Count every tiny grain of sand on every shore in every land.
Then add to that the quantity of stars in every galaxy.
Plus tally up each leaf you find on every tree and bush combined.
Count every scale on every fish from every ocean if you wish.

To that you'll add infinity-
you could add all your life, you see,
and still your counting won't be done.
I love you that much, little one.